4 Tips for Natural English Conversation Responses - Improve English Speaking
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In this lesson, you can learn to respond naturally in conversations in English.
If you simply stare at the other person when they’re talking to you, your conversations
We’re partly joking, but when you’re speaking a second language, you often need to concentrate
on understanding what the other person is saying.
This means you might forget to respond naturally, but natural responses are important to keep
your conversation going, and also to show the other person that you care about what
This lesson will show you natural conversational responses which you can use to express interest,
surprise, agreement, confusion, and much more!
When someone’s telling you a story, it’s important to show interest in what they’re
First, let’s see what not to do.
The other day, I met up with an old friend from high school.
It was great to catch up with him!
He’s had such an interesting life.
At the moment, he’s working in an orangutan sanctuary in Borneo.
Next, he told me he’s planning to develop a spaceship which can take humans to Mars!
Mmm-hmm. Of course, you can nod your head and say mmm-hmm or hmm, but that doesn’t sound
There are other ways to show that you’re engaged.
Let’s look at a better way to do this.
I had a chat with my boss the other day and he’s putting me on this great new project.
So I visited my family last Sunday and we had a lovely barbecue.
The exam was really hard, I’m not sure if I’ve passed it.
Is that right? Of course, you can’t be interested in everything that someone
But, it’s still helpful to show that you’re listening, and that you understand what the
Let’s see some useful phrases you can use to do this. My car broke down last week, so
It seemed like it was leaking oil.
They told me it wasn’t too bad, they could get it fixed easily.
Some situations need stronger responses, for example if you hear something surprising.
My sister broke up with her boyfriend.
Yeah, it turned out he was seeing someone else.
No way! In this section, you saw how to show interest,
How many of the responses can you remember?
Take a look, and pause the video if you need more time to read.
I think we’re done here, right?
That last episode of Game of Thrones was amazing!
I really like Sarah’s new haircut.
People shouldn’t be so negative, especially if they don’t have anything to contribute
I couldn’t agree more! Of course, sometimes you might NOT agree with the other person.
I’m glad Eric got the promotion to be our team leader.
I think I’m going to take my husband to a spa.
The media should stop talking about celebrities getting together and breaking up.
I don’t see it that way; if people want to read about it, why not let them? In this
section, you’ve seen three phrases you can use to agree, and three phrases to disagree.
Next, how about some language to respond to suggestions?
Whenever you want to make plans with friends, decide on a place to have dinner or plan a
meeting with colleagues, you’ll need to respond to other people’s suggestions.
Let’s see how you can do this. Why don’t we go for a bike ride this Saturday?
It’s Rita’s birthday tomorrow.
How about we buy her a bottle of wine from the team?
I’m not sure if she likes wine.
Maybe we can get her some flowers and chocolate?
What do you think of this colour for the living room?
I think it’ll make the room feel gloomy.
Yeah, sure. Here, you saw three phrases you can use to reject a suggestion, and three
Here are the phrases you saw; pause the video if you need more time to read:
You can see that it’s common to use a vague phrase to reject a suggestion, like I’m
This is important as a non-native speaker of English: people are often more indirect
when saying ‘no’ to something.
Of course, this depends on the culture you’re in, and the people you’re with.
However, it’s a good idea to remember that if you make a suggestion, and people reply
in very vague ways, they will often be saying ‘no’ to your idea. I’m confused about
If only there was some way I could ask him to clarify what he said.
My computer just crashed, I think it has a virus.
You should start it in Safe Mode and run a virus scan.
It’s a special way to start your computer, use F8 when you turn on the computer and it
will start the system in safe mode.
Sorry, I didn’t catch that; could you say it one more time?
So, press F8 as soon as you turn on the computer, and when the system starts, you can scan for
Okay, so, you mean that I need to turn on the computer, press F8, and then run the virus
scan?
It depends what the virus scan shows.
Hold on, are you saying that I might have to do more stuff after that?
This sounds like a huge hassle.
If you have a virus or other malware, you’ll need to remove it.
I think I’ll just take it to the shop.
It’s common not to understand exactly what someone else said, even for native speakers.
Even if you understood, you might need more information.
In these cases, you can use these phrases to ask for clarification. Now, you’ve learned
some natural conversational responses to deal with many different situations in English.
Let’s practice what you’ve learned!
We’ll show you some phrases which you need to respond to.
Depending on the situation, there are often different ways in which you can respond.
I need to go to the shop to buy couscous.
And here are three possible responses:
Why don’t we go together?
You can respond with a suggestion: “Why don’t we go together?”
Maybe you just want to show you understood, so you say: “OK, I see”.
But, maybe you don’t understand what your friend needs to buy, so you ask: “You’ve
For the next phrases, think of responses you would give.
We’ll show some examples on the screen, but of course, there are many good ways to
Last weekend I finally bought a new phone, but when I got home and opened the box, it
turned out they had given me the wrong one!
Think about how you would respond.
Justin Bieber is the best singer in the world; I can’t wait to go to his concert!
How about we go hiking in the mountains this weekend? To practice, tell us which responses
Let us know in the comments, and you can check that you’re using these phrases in a natural
way!
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