How To Respond To Rude & Insulting People? Funny & Direct English Phrases In Reply To Rude Comments

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Did you know that statistically five out

of every 10 people report that they are spoken to

rudely every single day.

This basically means that maximum people that you encounter in your everyday

life, they are the victim of somebody who has been rude to them

at school at work, maybe even their spouses and so many

other people who have been rude.

But do you know how to encounter and respond to a

Well, there are ways to do that.

In fact, I want to show you the best ways that I use to

respond to root comments because I think that such people need to be

put in their place.

But are you going to be rude to them?

Well, let's find out.

So the first way or the first sentence you could possibly say is,

wow, someone seems to have woken up on the wrong

side of the bed.

Now this is a very sarcastic comment.

You know, there are some people who just have a bad mood and they think it is

pretty okay to just vent their bad mood on anyone

that they come across.

That's when you can say, wow, someone seems to have woken up on the wrong side

I'd rather speak to you when you feel like having a civil

conversation goodbye until then.

Now this is you shutting the conversation altogether,

which you must do the what civil means polite.

So you're telling the guy, hey, I will only talk to you when you are ready to

have a civil or polite conversation until then I'm not

available by that was probably the

most unintelligent thing you've ever said in

your entire life.

I believe that people who are rude are not very clever because they don't know how to

control their words and use words to their advantage.

And that is why I prefer to call them unintelligent.

So I would use this.

Maybe you should try to, sometimes you could say,

hey, you need to stop embarrassing yourself.

Like I said, if someone is rude, they're unintelligent

and if you are unintelligent, the truth is that you are only embarrassing

So you know what make the person realize that look, you are embarrassing

yourself, stop it.

Or you could say you look like you are totally out of touch with your

emotions, which is actually true because people who are rude do not know how

to control and regulate their emotions properly.

They get angry flustered and they think it is okay to take it out on you.

Well remind them, hey, you look like you're out of touch with your

You need some help or you could say, I think

you've clearly overstepped your boundaries.

It would be best if you stopped right now.

Now this is the more direct way of just telling someone

that hey, you cannot talk to me like that.

And here you've got to like stop the person who is trying to attack you

with their words and the way they are behaving, that's when you say

you've overstepped your boundaries?

Okay, we will just have to agree to

disagree minus minus means without all of the name

The truth is that some people when they are rude, they start calling you names.

Like the other day someone said that, oh, you are really dumb.

You're really not smart enough.

Because I do not agree with them.

Well that's really rude.

They can agree with me or they can disagree with me, that is there option.

But they must do it minus without all the name calling.

So you can actually use this when someone resorts to name calling when they are

being rude with you, that comment does not even

deserve a response period.

Now, sometimes I don't think you need to dignify someone's

comment with a response because some people are really plain mean.

That's when you will say that comment does not deserve a response so I'm

going to stop right now.

Let me also tell you why we've used the word period because period means a full stop

in other words, you are putting a stop an end to the conversation, which

is what you must be doing.

Did you know that being a jerk is really uncool?

Well, if the person is being rude, he's unintelligent and therefore he's a mean

person meaning he's a jerk, which is a slang word for someone who is

totally mean and horrible as a person.

That's when you can say, hey, did you know that being a jerk is really uncool.

You've got to tell people that being rude is not being cool because nowadays in

movies, people tend to think that, you know, being rude and saying

mean things at school, but being a jerk is not cool.

It is totally uncool, you seem to have let yourself

down altogether.

Like when people are rude, they're acting immature, they're acting

childish, they are acting pretty stupid.

If you ask me, that's when I like to tell them, hey, you seem to have let yourself down

Not good, not cool at all.

Now sometimes I don't want to be rude or I don't want to

really give it back to the other person because maybe they don't realize what they're doing

and that's when I use a little bit of empathy.

I kind of try to make them think about what they're doing.

That's when you could use a question like this, you could say, would you like it

if this is an if actually would you like it?

If someone you love were spoken to like that.

Like a lot of people don't realize how it feels to the other person when

they are being spoken to rudely, but that's when you step in and tell them, hey,

what if the person you love were spoken to like that, get them thinking about

what they're doing okay.

So I would possibly in some cases do that or you

could say, hey, your words don't make things any better.

The truth is that everybody in life is struggling one way or the other,

So maybe I'm struggling with, you know, waiters, shoes or I have my personal problems

But if you're being rude to me, are you making it better?

That's when you want to point out to the person that they are being really bad?

It's not guilt tripping, but you're telling them, hey, your words are not

making things any better.

That was petty and totally uncalled for if you

remember I said that people who are rude are immature.

So people who are immature end up in the end up saying and doing

petty or very insignificant things or trivial

And that's when you can say, hey, that was very petty and totally uncalled

for, which means you don't have to do it.

Why did you do it?

Why were you petty enough to do it?

Or you could say that's totally unacceptable, right?

Because if you're rude, well that's not going to fly with anyone.

And you can't, you can't use those phrases, You can simply say that's totally

You will not and you cannot use those words with me okay.

Or you could now be like a little, you know, you could give it back to the person by saying,

hey, I hope your day is as pleasant as you are a very sarcastic comment, which

means if that person is rude, I hope Karma comes to get you back.

So you say hey, I hope your day is as pleasant as you are, goodbye.

Very sarcastic or you could say it must be hard to

have such a miserable life that makes you so bitter.

This is again a very sarcastic comment because I really believe that people who are rude don't have a

great life and that causes them to be rude and bitter.

So you want to use this sarcastically, you need to get some

serious help goodbye again.

You're kind of telling the other person that look what you're doing is not normal, like a

normal human being does not function that way or does not talk some

way does not talk that way.

That's when you will say you need to get some serious help by

or you could say you are the epitome of rudeness.

Well, by Okay, so epitome is basically the highest

form or like the standard of rudeness, like the worst

standard of rudeness and this person is trying to be one which is not a compliment.

Okay, you can be an epitome of good things, but if you are an epitome of rudeness, that's not a

Okay, so I hope you can take your pick out of

all these comments and use it when people are being rude to you as you can see some of these

comments are very direct.

Some of these comments are sarcastic.

Some of these comments also show empathy.

So pick the ones that you want depending on who you are responding

to and use them in a way that really shows that you are

assertive and that you will not take rudeness has something that they

can do with you.

So please use these comments and tell me which ones you really liked.

I would love to hear these comments and and I'll respond to them when

I get the chance.

Until then keep learning, keep practicing and don't be

rude but learn how to respond to rude comments.

Bye bye see ya.